Ten Qualities of a Winner

Success in Networking or anything for that matter is very closely related to mind set...and this needs to be nurtured on a daily basis. Many years ago I found a very interesting book called the Psychology of Winning by Denis Waitley. 




It addressed the Ten Qualities of a Winner which included:

Positive Self Awareness
Positive Self Esteem
Positive Self Control
Positive Self Motivation
Positive Self Expectancy
Positive Self Image
Positive Self Direction
Positive Self Discipline
Positive Self Dimension
Positive Self Projection

Reading the list alone gives one a sense of the aspects that bring success.

There was a Success Formula presented..it was:

Conceive + Believe = Achieve
Visualize + Internalize = Realize
Imagination + Simulation = Realization

What we are striving for is a lifestyle that we are pleased with while also being an example to others. You are projecting an image that you practise daily to become that very person. Imagine a life of magnificence, begin with projecting positive self awareness...take a long look at your self honestly..and appreciate your own uniqueness. Know you can achieve so much more..imagine yourself through the eyes of others who influence your life...people you trust.

Accept all compliments with a simple thank you even if you are not used to this...you are a growing, but imperfect human being..accept this..and love yourself for this. Talk to yourself in a very positive way...love yourself so you can give love more fully to others. See yourself as a winner.

Accept personal responsibility...you can make things happen! Relax and enjoy taking advantage of the many choices and alternatives that present themselves on a daily basis. You create your own luck through preparation and affirmative action.

"When you see your potential, feel deserving and know that you are in charge, you get that itch to get going. Remember that you are becoming what you are thinking about every waking moment - so it is important to motivate yourself and others close to you by focusing on desire instead of fear"

Expect not only good things but great things to happen to you...your enthusiasm will elevate the people around you and be an unstoppable positive force.

Your mind reacts to the way you see yourself...imagine greatness...the mind does not know the difference between what is imagined and what is actually happening. Practise ...see, hear, feel what you want as an outcome in the pictures, words and emotions you present to your self. Essentially...your imagination has great power over your world....use it wisely.

"Remember that the mind is a magnificent bio-computer that functions in very specific terms to very specific kinds of data instructions. Set a game plan for your life with goals that are incremental and realistic. Put your goals down on paper and define monthly targets and daily tasks". "...without a goal (your mind) will cause your system to wander aimlessly around or even self destruct"

You now have goals and are committed to them...the next task is to have the discipline to follow through with them....practise seeing the process first in your mind...Visualization + Internalization = Realization...until you are able to follow through with them outwardly.

Present a confident willing attitude and always consider the benefit of others as well...generate win/win scenarios....helping to create other winners in the process.

"....understand that you, yourself are no more than the composite picture of all your thoughts and actions. In your relationships with others, there's a basic and critically important rule:"If you want to be loved, be lovable. If you want respect, set an example!".

There are many amazing books that help us in our journey towards becoming what we most desire. I hope this snippet of this book will encourage you to learn and grow more into the magnificent person I know you to be.

To your utmost success

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